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Biography of Neil Patrick Harris

Neil Patrick Harris is an American actor, comedian, and television host. He gained fame as a teenager for his lead role in the series "Doogie Howser, M.D.", and his global popularity came from his role as Barney Stinson in the sitcom "How I Met Your Mother" (2005-2014). Besides his acting career, he is known for hosting the Tony Awards and Emmy Awards ceremonies, as well as his work in Broadway theater.

Childhood

Neil was born and raised in Albuquerque, USA. He was born on June 15, 1973, to lawyers Ron and Sheila Harris. His parents owned a restaurant, and young Neil often helped them by entertaining guests with his early acting experiments.

His childhood overflowed with creativity: he starred in school plays, sang in the choir, and performed at a local theater. A pivotal moment came when a Hollywood talent scout noticed him at a summer theater camp.

Neil Patrick Harris's acting career began in the late '80s when, as a teenager, he landed a small role in the film "Purple People Eater."

But soon fate smiled on the young actor—in 1989, he landed the lead role in the series "Doogie Howser, M.D." The role of the 16-year-old wunderkind doctor earned him not only a Golden Globe nomination but also widespread recognition.

Despite early success and fame, his parents kept Neil grounded: between filming, he continued attending regular school and stayed the same open, friendly guy from Albuquerque.

Early Works

After the series ended in 1993, Harris avoided the typical fate of child actors by deliberately choosing diverse roles. He starred in the science fiction action film "Starship Troopers" as Colonel Carl Jenkins and began working actively in theater. His participation in the Broadway production of the musical "Cabaret" was particularly successful.

Neil Patrick Harris in Starship Troopers

In the early 2000s, he unexpectedly appeared as himself in the comedy "Harold & Kumar Go to White Castle" in a witty, self-deprecating cameo. He voiced animated films and made guest appearances in sitcoms until he was offered the role of Barney Stinson in "How I Met Your Mother" in 2005.

"How I Met Your Mother"

Neil Patrick Harris snagged the role of Barney Stinson after the show's creators, Carter Bays and Craig Thomas, caught his hilarious cameo in "Harold & Kumar Go to White Castle." Originally meant to be a supporting comedic character, Harris's charisma turned Barney into one of the show's breakout stars.

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Barney Stinson is a mysterious corporate hotshot (his actual job stays secret for most of the series) who's obsessed with designer suits, living large, and hooking up. Beneath his self-centered player persona lies someone scarred by childhood trauma—his father walked out on him, defining much of who he became. Over nine seasons, Barney transforms from cynical womanizer to a guy who can actually fall head-over-heels in love.

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Barney's defining traits include his elaborate pranks and pickup schemes, fierce loyalty to his crew (especially bestie Ted), his sacred "Bro Code," and serious obsessions with laser tag and magic tricks. His signature catchphrases—"Legendary!" "Suit up!" and "Challenge accepted!"—became pop culture gold. His epic love story with Robin (Cobie Smulders) became the heart of his character arc, proving Barney could feel something real beneath all that swagger.

The role earned Neil Patrick Harris four Emmy nominations and two Golden Globe nominations.

Further Career

Post-HIMYM, Harris dove into darker territory with the thriller "Gone Girl" (2014) and brought his theatrical flair to Netflix as the villainous Count Olaf in "A Series of Unfortunate Events."

The ultimate showman, Harris has hosted the Tony Awards four times and took on the Oscars in 2015. He kept conquering Broadway, snagging a Tony for his powerhouse performance in "Hedwig and the Angry Inch" (2014). In 2021, he took his talents to London's West End in the musical "Company."

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In 2019, he joined "The Matrix Resurrections," the long-awaited fourth installment that hit theaters in 2021, with Harris playing the Analyst—the film's main villain.

In 2022, he headlined the Netflix comedy series "Uncoupled."

Neil Patrick Harris's Personal Life

In 2006, Harris made headlines when he came out publicly, stating: "I am happy to dispel any rumors about my orientation and confirm that I am gay."

He's married to actor-chef David Burtka—they started dating secretly in 2004 and made their red carpet debut at the 2007 Emmys. In 2010, they welcomed twins via surrogate.

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They got engaged in 2011 when same-sex marriage became legal nationwide. Elton John performed at their wedding.

The couple regularly shares glimpses of their family life on social media. They call a stunning 200-year-old five-story Harlem townhouse home. After major renovations, the home still maintains its historic character.

Neil Patrick Harris Now

In 2023, Harris starred in "Doctor Who" as the Celestial Toymaker. He also appeared in several episodes of the sitcom "How I Met Your Father," a spin-off of "How I Met Your Mother."

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